Friday, 15 April 2016

From the Diary of a Toastmaster – “Man & Machine” - TM Ugene Jude, Leader's Garden Toastmasters




"..for I couldn't harness my awe and fell into a guffawing spree, just at the wrong place with absurd timing”.

Toastmaster Scarlett always had this conflict of interest between her body and her emotions often. She always thought of the imbalance created within the most complex single autonomous machinery in the world – human body. She used to wonder why she fell asleep just when she thought the tragic incident is going to deprive her of sleep for days. She wondered why she felt hungry just hours after her German boy-friend dumped her when she thought it's going to remain heavy in her stomach for long. With much more instances lining up her experience sleeve, she concluded – we are not Master enough to saddle our own body. Do all the possible mess you can with your mind and your senses, it just doesn't matter, when you body wakes up and points a gun at you, surrender is the wisest and only possible option.

That's exactly what happens when you speak of something only prepared and not understood. Your mind, focus and all your sensory pals are zoomed in on the words while your body is experiencing something not familiar and out-of-sync. It trembles at those momentary pauses you take when you have no idea what to speak next. Well, the whole program of you standing out there looks much weirder now.  Your physical form which is supposed to help you with the gestures and postures part is now on its way to crash and now in addition to exploring words in your mind you have more things to handle now – your shaky feet, the what-to-do-with-these hands, the hard-to-look-at-you-folks eyes and an overall stiff stance.

Ever tried to sing your favorite song motionless? How hard is it? It's that weird musical waves and eye-lid movements you make that makes your song a much better experience to the listeners. So the key is, make your speech your favorite. Love what you've prepared and orchestrate it. Take for granted the fact that you got a stage and a decent crowd to listen to you. Roll it.


“..so, had a dusky evening tinted with Easter lights by the Tiber. My friend for a fortnight Nicoleta sang this beautiful song then. It haunted me of my long trip ahead but she graciously swayed to the song and I could feel her movements carrying me away.

                        Who can say where the road goes?Where the day flows?
                        Only time
                        And who can say if your love grows, As your heart chose?
                        Only time
                        Who can say why your heart sighs, As your love flies?
                        Only time.....................”



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